you had asked me once upon a time what i wanted. specifically this-
i want someone who wants to spend time with me... not because of necessity, but because he wants to. i want someone who is romantic and loves to surprise me. i want someone to above all, protect me (i've been thru a lot). someone who, when i'm sad or scared, will just hold me, stroke my hair and tell me that things will be alright. someone who doesn't mind my intermittent craziness (^_^). someone who loves to make me laugh and laughs at me & my craziness in return. someone who likes to touch me- even if it's just a poke (i believe in the power of human contact... it does so much). someone who makes me feel wanted. someone who loves me (yes, there are different types of love and i know that). someone who helps me to be happy.
in a nutshell- that's it. and oddly enough, i am convinced i already have that. the only thing i want is a label. for some odd reason, there's security in a boyfriend/girlfriend label.
what i don't need-
i'm not looking for sex. as sexual as i am (or perverted... pick your term), i'm really not that interested in sex. it's only brought trouble and pain in the past, therefore it's not a priority. besides- if all i want is an orgasm, i can do that myself.
marriage. yes, it's one of my life goals, but for some reason ppl are under the impression that i want it right now. hell no- i promised myself that i'm only doing it once. therefore, i'm going to do it right. that takes time. i refuse to rush into something that important to me.
children. >_< anyone who truly knows me, knows how i feel about kids at this point in my life. that's a non-issue.
someone who will throw away his hopes and dreams for me. it's sweet, but i could never live with myself if someone did that. i'm a person who believes in never bending someone to your will. it's just not right. you may say, "what if he wants to?" i would still wonder if something i did persuaded him to do this. no- life is far too short to let go of dreams. believe it or not, i still have dreams of being a singer... and one never knows.
...and for the helluvit- a test. what kind of girlfriend am i?
You're an Amorous Adventurer
Carefree and fun, you are easily excited when it comes to new experiences — and that includes relationships. It's not that you see boyfriends as frivolous pursuits, but you enjoy the art of the chase, and you work to make sure that long-term relationships maintain that sense of adventure and surprise.
You may not be the type of girlfriend who spends every waking hour with her man, but that doesn't mean you're not thinking about him. You're just an independent woman, and it's important for you to feel challenged and creative in most things you do. That's what makes any relationship an adventure.
What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?
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